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  • How old am I:
  • 47
  • Sexual orientation:
  • Guy
  • My figure features:
  • I'm quite muscular
  • I prefer to drink:
  • Cider
  • Hobbies:
  • Collecting
  • Smoker:
  • No

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We have discovered that the primary differences are: 1 personal level of need for intimacy or connection with potential sexual partners; and 2 how relationships are configured across the spectrum of CNM lifestyle options. How we express ourselves sexually and the needed level of intimacy should be seen as a spectrum of intensity. Regardless of the preferred CNM lifestyle chosen, every person and relationship can move within the spectrum based on their current needs and desires. As you read the definitions below, keep in mind that the definitions can adjust based on the moment-in-time context a person is in based on their sexual and intimacy needs as well as within their relationship s. There is an ebb and flow to what every person needs and how they need to fulfill those needs. The individual determines who, if anyone, is permitted in their personal, sexual space and in what ways they want to be sexual, intimate, or emotionally connected, if at all.

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What do swingers mean by friends with benefits (fwb)

We've run into folks who use it to mean everything from "people we like enough to have sex with, but that's all we ever do together" to "we hang out all the time and occasionally have sex together". I'm curious to hear what you guys think when you see that particular phrase, and how you mean it if you use it.

Back when I was single it meant someone who I could call up or sometimes hang out with but sex was always the intended end result. Now married and in the LS to us it means a couple we can do vanilla activities with and sometimes swapping with them is the nightcap to an evening, not the sole purpose of being around them. That's just our outlook, look forward to hearing others take on it.

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I have someone who I sometimes describe as a "friend with benefits. We also, when the occasion occurs, have great sex. For me, I think, the term generally refers to a relationship that is first a friendship and second a casual sexual relationship. And why not make it something more consequential? After all, aren't our best lifetime lovers, typically our greatest friends? That explains the relationship we have with the two guys my wife and I have threesomes with. In both cases they are good friends.

The bonus is that they are fun to have sex with too. IMO, friends with benefits mean It's beneficial for all parties involved to get together either for sex or companionship. You are using each other for the benefits that meet the needs of both or group. For example, I love to cuddle at night with my FWB on cold nights.

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No sex involved. Just a night of cuddling. Then in the morning we go on with our lives. We get together for sex only at swing parties. This can be kind of a two-edged sword This can backfire and make one of the parties feel like they were used, or have them end up trying to "guilt" the other party into more of a relationship than they want.

Not to sound superior, but it seems to me that the above are situations lacking in open, honest communication. You are right From our point of view, the term "Friends with Benefits" means a couple or single individual who has similar interests in the LS as ourselves with who we can enjoy both social, as well as sexual activities, on an on-going basis. In other words, a long term quality relationship rather than the one-night-stand quantity sex sessions.

I am sure it has a different meaning and interpretation to a lot of people in the LS, but that is our take on the situation. Main thing is that everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves, whether it be social or sexual.

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That is exactly what my wife and I consider "friends with benefits. One we have known since the early 80s and started playing with in the mid 80s.

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We still get together with him socially and also sexual activities. Another friend is someone we have known since the late 80s.

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Last January we played with him for the first time and have become good friends and playmates. We have played with him a lot this year and continue to socialize and play with him whenever possible. In other words, A FWB is someone you are not looking to get in a serious relationship with. Just occasional dates, sex or just get together to keep each other company.

You may get together every weekend, every other weekend or once a month. There is no talk about being in love or taking the FWB to another level.

Polyamory versus friends with benefits and swingers in the lifestyle: are they different?

We have vanilla friends that we might go dancing with, have a game night, hang out with, etc. We love and care about these people. We have other friends that we meet with occasionally that we do some things that friends do, but always with the intent of having sex with them later. Sex is the main goal here, and while we love being with them, it's really only because we have a hot sexy time with them. Then there is a third group. They are really friends that we hang out with, dance with, play games with. We truly love these people as the closest of friends.

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Sometimes, when we get together, we have sex with these couples. The sex is always awesome. We plan and have adventures together. To us they are friends with benefits, and they are golden. A person who I can hang out with, have games nights with, dance with, watch movies with, talk about anything and nothing with and have great sex with At the same time, my definition of love recognizes degrees. It doesn't have to mean exclusivity, "making a life together" or whatever else.

Happy new year to one and all. Back when i was in the dating scene with benefits, i took a different approach. There were two ladies whom i had interaction with in the bedroom, when i sensed trouble of jealousy we three had a mutual date where we sat down like civilized folks, discussing not one was better then the other, but singly they brought to the bedroom something different with new excitement.

When we all realized each one had a valid point, attitudes changed and we three continued for many years. It did provide many times of great pleasure, we had threesome's with everyone getting something different out of the experience. Communications is the secret too anything even with folks for fwb. Those were the years to remember, never regret having the open and meaning full discussion.

I am on another thread here that I created called "please Help". Everyone has been so helpful, supportive. I came to this thread because the man that I have been sexual with, 3 times since mid may, the last 2 times were at swingers parties. We have no plans to start an emotional relationship.

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I think swinging is more common w committed couples, than what we are. We show up and leave as a couple. I am going to get my own membership as a unicorn due to the fact that the last 2 parties we were at, he ended up with 2 very sexy women whom had not so sexy partners, I went along with it but I'm here to tell you it won't happen again. It was obvious he forgot all about me, in my opinion. I should have spoken up. He's always been kind, asked me the last time if I was satisfied, I was not It really is s grey area because we have no love between us, he knows many nice people at the 2 places, is well liked, I will tell him that maybe it's better if I go stag.

I'm thinking that what he and I are doing Long term committed couples. You are just his ticket to getting into someplace that probably doesn't allow single guys to go. You are doing the right thing and you will quickly find that you have your pick of almost anyone there. It WILL be okay and you will probably enjoy yourself more since you will be the one making the choices. Embrace your inner unicorn and just go for it. You are the diamond here rare, beautiful and valuable Have a great time. I am a loving, sensitive, kind, open book about myself. I care about people and their feelings.

I can honestly say these things I'm very humble, tend to look at life they rose colored glasses. I will end this whole thing in s kind manner. I'm sure I'll see him at the one club out here at some point. I am a very fit attractive 55 yr. My feelings get hurt easily but I like myself so I bounce back. One more thing I want to move to calif.

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So why fall in love here? I'm a very sexual women I would like some passion and caring intimacy Strong, caring, kind, but also smart. Nice to finally meet you. Now why aren't you packing yet?

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